Warm and cozy in the place is me...

I am finally in a warm and cozy place of comfort. I am beginning to enjoy just being along with me and getting to know that spunky fun loving girl again. She (I) am slowly coming out of my shell and starting to breath again. Life is great. The man is great altogether I have noticed some qualities that I have to watch. I want to be sure to take my time and evaluate exactly what I am looking for and I have to be sure to heal completely so that I don't attract another controlling and mean spirit in my life. I don't really see that happening but anything is possible when you don't take the time needed to just be selfish with "me".